How To Approach Women by Joseph Matthews
Every man out there should learn how to approach women, because if he doesn't, he is missing out on the vital first step for finding the girl of his dreams and forming a relationship with her...
The way you approach a girl can make or break the rest of your pickup. Here are some tips for approaching women that will help ensure your success!
Have you ever approached a girl with what you thought was the best pickup line ever, but she freaked out when you tapped her on the shoulder?
Getting rejected right off the bat can be painful, but this is why you need to know the secrets to approaching women the right way! Once you've "blown it" with a girl, it is extremely hard to recover.
The key to approaching women is to approach them in a NON-THREATENING manner that does not telegraph your interest.
This is known as "coming in under the radar."
Understand: Most women have trained themselves to just REJECT men outright when they sense they are being picked up on.
Most men don't realize how annoying it can be for women to constantly be approached by guys who run the gamut from big time loser to big time creep. Because of this, women just don't want to deal with yet "another pick-up attempt."
Approaching women can be both easy AND fun when you know how to do it RIGHT.
So what's the right way to approach a woman?
The first secret is - DO NOT HESITATE!
If you hesitate and let the opportunity pass you by, you're never going to experience success. Giving yourself time to talk yourself out of approaching a girl will never get you anywhere, so it's important you act quickly and JUST DO IT.
Another tip - know what to say BEFORE you approach a woman! Meeting women becomes so much easier when you don't have to waste time thinking of what to say to her to start a conversation.
When it comes to a situation like this, you should probably have a good, proven "pick up line" memorized that will help start a conversation.
But don't confuse the term "pick up line" with sleazy saying like "Nice shoes, let's have sex!" The goal here is to be NON-THREATENING, remember?
The best lines usually engage the girl in an innocent conversation. You can do so by asking her opinion on something and then following that up with more questions.
Another thing - when you are approaching women, don't charge in like you're going to war. Approach them from an angle. This is less confrontational and will subconsciously put the woman you are engaging more at ease.
Remember this golden rule of pick-up: Attraction can only happen when the girl is COMFORTABLE with you! Because of this, it is also vitally important that YOU feel comfortable when approaching women.
If you're not comfortable approaching women, the best way to overcome it is to go out there and start approaching women right away! After all, practice makes perfect, right?
Let me tell you - getting good at approaching women is not going to happen if all you do is read about it or study it! You actually have to DO it so you can build your level of experience. (Trust me, it gets easier the more you do it).
Don't be afraid of getting rejected when you do this. Look at it as a game and distance yourself from the outcome. You're not trying to get a date or get her into bed, your only goal is to talk to her and strike up a conversation. If you do that, you win!
That's all you need to do!
Make it a game by seeing how many girls you can talk to in one day, and then try and beat your score.
Finally, use a "time constraint" when approaching women. This is as simple as telling her you've only got a minute to talk to her because you've got to get back to your friends or whatever you're doing.
Effective use of time constraints will better engage the woman you're talking to, because she won't feel that she's committing to a time-consuming endeavor. Instead, you're only a momentary "distraction." This helps eliminate any reason to reject you right off the bat.
The beauty of this is that if the conversation picks up and is going well, she'll forget that you used a time constraint, and you can actually talk to her as long as you want. Using a good time constraint is just a way to make the approach easier in the beginning.
In the world of dating, it all boils down to a numbers game. The more women you meet, the better your chances of finding your soul mate.
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